Therapy Blog

Real talk on motherhood, relationships, and raising anxious kids - from a Jersey City therapist who's walked through plenty of this herself. Here you'll find practical, judgment-free thoughts on postpartum mental health, child anxiety, couples therapy, and the everyday realities of parenting and family life. Grab what's useful, skip what's not, and reach out anytime if you want to talk something through.

Topics include: Postpartum & Perinatal Mental Health, SPACE & Child Anxiety, Couples & Relationships, and Family Life.

Anxiety During Pregnancy: What It Really Looks Like and How Postpartum Planning Can Help

Anxiety during pregnancy is just as common as postpartum depression — but far less recognized. As a perinatal mental health therapist in Jersey City, I see it every day, and it rarely looks the way people expect. Here's what it actually looks like, and how postpartum planning can set you up for a healthier fourth trimester.

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Stephanie Arrington Stephanie Arrington

Spring Cleaning Your Mental Load

Feeling heavy this time of year? You're not alone. Learn how the mental load lives in your body and how to start putting some of it down.

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When “Snack Wars” Aren’t Really About Snacks

It’s never just about the snacks. When a partner eats the marathon fuel you need or packs dog food for lunch as a “joke,” it’s not funny—it’s dismissive. These “little things” reveal bigger truths about respect, invisible labor, and whether you feel supported in your relationship. Here’s why they matter, and how therapy can help.

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Stephanie Arrington Stephanie Arrington

What Weekend Golf Says About the Mental Load in Your Home

What if your partner’s weekly golf game isn’t just about self-care, but a clue about how your time is valued at home? In this post, I explore how hobbies highlight deeper imbalances in the mental load women carry, and why it’s okay to want more space for yourself. If you’re feeling stretched thin while your partner’s time is protected, you’re not alone and you don’t have to keep carrying it all.

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